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It Wasn't
What They Thought
Years ago the "Educational
Establishment" had an "obvious" theory they got
study money to prove. The fact was that the children of wealthy
and middle class parents did better in school than the children
of poor parents. The "obvious" answer was that when parents
have money, they can buy the supplies and training tools that help
children excel. The study found the differences and fixed them,
but something odd happened - it didn't help!
In fact, a judge
in Texas once took control of a school system because it was obviously
not providing for the poor and minority groups because the performance
of those groups was substandard. He decided that the Court needed
to take control and fix the problem. He ordered the construction
of hundreds of millions of dollars of science and computer labs,
provided the latest facilities, fixed everything, and provided
all the cutting edge resources to teach the kids. Test scores stayed
the same and the drop out rate went UP!
It became apparent
that something else was going on. It took several studies to find
out what was different between the poor families and the middle
class and wealthy families. It wasn't the money. It wasn't the
equipment. Fixing those made NO difference.
Another interesting
thing they found out when they studied the education of children
in the late 1990s is that a child of high school drop out parents
will perform below the 50th percentile in school. No surprise there.
BUT, here's the surprise - HOMESCHOOL kids whose Teacher-Parent
was a high school drop out still scored around
the 80th percentile! So why did the professional, college educated
teacher produce less than a 50th percentile and when the drop out
mom taught her own child the kid performed at the 80th percentile?
The Simple
Answer: Ask!
The answer turned
out to be remarkably simple: Ask Questions.
They found that
poor families tended to TELL their children things, while middle
class and wealthy families tended to ASK questions. For example,
if a child said "2+2=5," in one family he would be told "No,
2+2=4" and in the other family he would be asked to try again.
It can be as simple as telling children "It's too loud" instead
of "Be quiet." The first one is an order. The second
requires just one step of thinking "If it's too loud, then
I have to be quieter."
We ask a lot
of questions. We provide necessary information, and sometimes we
ask leading questions, but the goal is to get the student to think.
The more a student can figure out on his or her own, the more the
student remembers.
BLACK
BOOK: ANOTHER IMPORTANT PRINCIPLE
Marshall's Black
Book refers to General Marshall. In World War I, he was attached
to General Pershing. He saw the casualty reports and determined
that if they had been better trained, that many of the people who
died in the war could have survived. Years later he was in charge
of Fort Banning, one of the Army's top training grounds.
He would make
his cadets work out their plans in detail and then take away their
map and compass and send them out. He would write the names of
the most promising officers in a small black book that became infamous
in the Army. He would go out of his way to try to make an officer's
career complicated, contacting Commanding Officers to have his "Black
Booked" officers given demanding and often unreasonable assignments
- like being put in charge of something about which they knew nothing.
If they handled themselves and the responsibilities well, they
stayed in his book. If not, he scratched out their name.
Then came Pearl
Harbor and we were in World War II. The United States needed officers
that were ready for the chaos of war. The names of three officers
remained in Marshall's Black Book: Bradley, MacArthur and Eisenhower.
We have senior officers ready for war largely because Marshall
made sure we had people who could deal with leadership under chaotic
conditions.
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Black
Book in the School
We use "Black
Book" techniques, too. We give students leadership opportunities
and help them lead. With strong followers, they excel and gain
confidence. At some point, many of the student leaders volunteer
to be "Black Booked" and they are sometimes given responsibilities
beyond the scope of their training. We might ask questions to
help guide their thinking, but we give them a chance to try.
Many succeed and become Junior Leaders and Assistant Instructors.
It's amazing to behold.
Besides leading
in class, a group of Junior Leaders, 3rd to 6th grade, accepted
an assignment to put together a major event. They came up with
the schedule, the potluck food lists, the decorations, and even
put together the demonstrations and scheduled speakers. They
were not told what to do. We just asked questions and defined
problems - they came up with answers on their own. One father
who is an executive trainer was concerned that it was a case
of "over delegation" when he found out the children
had very little guidance. The adults only assisted.
It was a fantastic
event. The kids did a magnificent job, and they learned more
about putting on a large event from their experience than they
could have if we just told them what to do. One parent said it
was an impressive event even before learning that the KIDS put
it together.
WE'RE
BEING PAID FOR RESULTS, NOT FOR WORK
Another consideration
we keep in mind when we teach is that we're being paid for results,
not for our work. It should not matter to a parent that we show
up in every class and work hard teaching if the students didn't
actually learn anything. Parents put children in class to learn.
Adults sign up for lessons to learn. Few people care how hard
we work if we don't produce results for them.
Likewise, we've
learned that sometimes the best thing we can do to help students
excel is to "disappear." Sometimes the instructor will
declare "I'm not here. So what happens now?" It's amazing
how well the students do. When they know what to do and they
want to do well they can be amazing.
One mother
commented that her daughter "has such a good teacher" when
the instructor hadn't done ANYTHING in that class. In fact, her
daughter had made sure class started on time and was leading
class because the instructor "wasn't there." The children
had been prepared so they knew what to do when the instructor
was watching them when he was "officially not there."
ADULT
SELF DEFENSE
The adult classes focus on real Self Defense. We've been teaching martial arts since the 1980s, and in that time we've had dozens of students attacked by violent criminals. So far, the students have won EVERY SINGLE TIME. The longest striking fight was 15 seconds. The second longest was 8 seconds. The rest were over in 1-5 seconds. Only fights ended with Jujitsu skills lasted longer. THAT's how well this stuff works.
Train here and
learn the real stuff. Our techniques take into account the practical
realities of criminal attacks AND the potential legal issues. The
head master is a lawyer, after all.
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